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Twenty Five years.

Wow internet that is a long time.

Well it’s not really a long time if you are a tree or a rock or a giant squid.

BUT it is a long time to have been married.

Today is my anniversary, The Spouse and I have been together for 25 years.

I often flippantly say that I found him on the side of the road and decided to keep him, well that is true, up to a point.

I didn’t really decide to keep “The Spouse” until four years later.

What I don’t say is that I only went out with The Spouse for a few months when Iย  was seventeen.

“The Spouse” swears that for him, it was love at first sight. He says he just knew that I was the one for him.

At the fickle age of seventeen I just thought he was rather hot and very fuckable. I went out with him for a few months and then dumped him when he started to talk about long term plans.

At the words lets settle down,I went WTF and bolted.

I bumped into Jeff at the pub again when I was 18 or 19 and one look into those eyes of his and I was immediately smitten again. But once again he vowed and declared that I was the only one for him and I was off like a shot.

At the age of 20 I was living a rather torrid life. The share house I was living in was full of crazy people doing crazy people things. I was working night shift in a popular blues nightclub and I wasn’t just burning the candle at both ends, I was putting a blow torch to the middle of the fuckerย  as well.

Enter “The Spouse” into my life again

Third time must have been the trick because on my 21st birthday I decided that maybe there was some merit to settling down with this bloke and so I jumped onto the back of his motorcycle and we have never looked back.

 

I like this photo very much, even though I joke that I should have moved the knife block a bit closer.

“The Spouse is often underneath my car fixing it for me.

I was telling him to pose for the camera and we got the giggles.

This is my favourite “Arty” shot of the Spouse.

Hey Jeffrey Foale. I do Love you!

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  • Meegs February 3, 2012, 10:27 am

    Ah….true love….gives me hope xx Congrats!

  • Trish February 3, 2012, 10:40 am

    Sweet !
    It is a VERY long time – with Silver linings and all that stuff – best wishes for the next 25yrs
    May you always be warmed by each other’s smile and splattered by sptiz and giggles. Love the knife in Jeff’s back.

  • Deb Dix February 3, 2012, 11:01 am

    That’s just lovely! I met my lovely Mart in Feb ’78, we were engaged in the July and married in the December. Best decision I ever made – and it wasn’t an easy one either!! I was recently arrived from 3 years in the UK and was jaded by ‘relationships’ even at that young age. Had to travel half a World to find him and it was SO worth it. Loving your ‘lovedupness’ Kim – Congrats to you both and blessings for many more years of the same.

  • sharon February 3, 2012, 11:03 am

    Congratulations, time flies doesn’t it!

    PS, I also got married when I was 21 ( a good year) and next month will be our 38th anniversary.

  • Pixie February 3, 2012, 11:30 am

    Congrats!

  • Watershedd February 3, 2012, 11:34 am

    You two give me hope, very much hope. Congrats. X

  • Fe February 3, 2012, 12:06 pm

    Awwww! Congratulations to you both! LOVE your story too ๐Ÿ™‚ xoxoxoxo

  • kalamac February 3, 2012, 12:24 pm

    Congratulations on 25 years!

  • river February 3, 2012, 2:55 pm

    Happy Anniversary!!
    May the next 25 years be just as happy.

  • Elephant's Child February 3, 2012, 3:11 pm

    Just wonderful. The smaller portion and I have been together over 30 years now and while we irritate each other often, I cannot imagine life without him.

    I am hoping that the next 25 or even 50 years are good to you both.

  • carolina February 3, 2012, 8:17 pm

    Congratulations to the both of you. He looks like a big softy (does he own a Harley Davidson? He looks like one of those guys.). Nice eyes indeed. May you keep giggling for many years to come ๐Ÿ˜‰

  • Glowless February 3, 2012, 8:47 pm

    Cheers to hot, fuckable blokes!!! x

  • Jebaru February 3, 2012, 10:20 pm

    Fantastic! Such good photos and I would LOVE to see a photo from your courting (aka fleeing and being recaptured) days. Happy anniversary xx

  • Jientje February 4, 2012, 5:14 am

    Happy Anniversary Kim and Jeff! What a lovely tribute! The look in his eyes tells me he’s still very much in love with you too! All the best for the both of you Kim!

  • lynda howells February 4, 2012, 5:35 am

    Congrats..25 yrs….xxxxxMy hubby and l have been married 40 years this year and l can hardly believe it! We are rare you know..marriages don’t normally last this longxxxxxlynda
    http://chocolatelifeandjazz.blogspot.com

  • Mary February 4, 2012, 11:55 am

    Just delightful Kim. What a beautiful couple. Enjoy each day ๐Ÿ™‚ xxx

  • Tanya February 4, 2012, 3:25 pm

    Beautiful. 25 years is a huge effort! Well done. I love the photos ๐Ÿ˜€

  • Rah February 4, 2012, 6:40 pm

    Happy anniversary, Mr and Mrs Foale! 25 years is a huge achievement in this day and age x

  • BendyGirl February 4, 2012, 10:28 pm

    Congratulations to you both! And thanks for such a wonderfully honest love story! BG Xx

  • Toni February 5, 2012, 9:59 am

    AWWW I have a warm heart-y glow now, Kim. I just LOVE a good love story!! Jeff has the nicest face, he looks like a Really Good Bloke.

  • Jenny11 February 15, 2012, 6:37 pm

    Wow! Truly amazing a couple of years bringing a wild satisfaction. Congratulation and keep it up.